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Have you and your fiancé considered eloping? Many couples today who think about the idea of running off to get married equate it with the modern concept of a destination wedding. And while destination weddings and elopements have many things in common, they also have a few key differences.

These differences help you decide which style of wedding you really want and how to go about it. Here are a few important things to know.

1. Differences In Size

Elopements are generally the smallest wedding you can arrange. Traditional elopements consist of the couple, an officiant, and the minimum number of legally required witnesses. These witnesses may be the couple's parents, but they are often two of their closest friends.

A destination wedding, on the other hand, can be as large or as small as you want. Most couples find that not a lot of guests can travel, so festivities are limited organically rather than by design. 

2. Differences In Planning

Eloping in the past involved literally running away to get married in secret. You can still take this approach, particularly if wedding planning gets out of hand or your loved ones are causing drama. However, most elopements now involve more planning and may be scheduled well in advance.

A destination wedding's planning schedule often looks much like a traditional wedding. In fact, it may even be further hampered or take longer due to the distances involved. 

3. Differences In Cost

Because of its very small size and often last-minute nature, eloping is also one of the least expensive ways to get married. Preparations and activities are kept to a minimum, which naturally drives down costs.

Destination weddings can be very minimalist as well, but the cost is much more like that of a small traditional wedding. Many destination weddings do take advantage of all-inclusive packages, though, which helps manage costs. 

4. Differences In Approach

When you plan to elope, the emphasis should be on the fun, spontaneity, and romance of the idea. Be flexible and feel free to have fun with it. You don't want to get caught up in what the wedding isn't but rather celebrate your personal and private love story.

Those planning a destination wedding also tend to build a romantic getaway, but with more options, the focus will be more on the event rather than the result. 

Where You Can Learn More

Does an elopement sound like what you want more than a destination wedding does? If so, begin by meeting with a venue that offers elopement wedding packages. With their help, you can tailor your size, planning, costs, and approach to your personal idea of the perfect way to get married.